
We are still trying to figure out the best way to structure our day. One of my boys is an early bird and the other likes to take it easy for awhile before delving into the day. At first I thought for sure I would have at least one subject done with my early bird before the other started but it turns out that having a relatively late(8:00) start to the "school" day works for all of us.
Math always is first, I think it's the best to get that subject done when our minds are freshest. We then continue onto read aloud time. Then it's onto language lessons and writing. Any project work or supplemental math & science is(usually) next and then history, which we do as a sit, read, write time twice a week. This all is (normally) done in about three hours or so.
I will think of two art projects per week to get done, which the boys normally do in one sitting. We are now into springtime so baseball and soccer are in full-swing so I have backed off of a regular P.E time, but the boys are outside at least half the daylight hours doing random things like running, playing at the park, practicing sports, or exploring so I am not so concerned with a structured P.E. They also do a home-school P.E class with a trainer every other Friday. This summer I plan on taking them swimming to work off some energy as well. We also have karate, guitar and theater on different days of the week so those extracurricular activities are built into some days of our week. We also try and get some grandparent time in as well.
Soooo, our days are organically structured but not in a by-the-minute sort of way. This has been surprising to me since I had begun thinking that was the healthiest approach but the boys have shown me otherwise. They want to know what to expect but they also don't want me hounding them and they need time to focus on their own interests which makes them happier and everything run smoother.
Overall, I believe that having a plan is a good thing but being flexible with time is important as well. I have begun to talk with them about time management and how important of a skill it is, in order to achieve their goals (and mine;) they have to manage their time, and everyday I think it sinks in a bit more and they are becoming more conscience of it which will lead them to be proactive and independent.